The Professional Geriatric Care Manager’s Blog

My Siblings

As I was driving home from my Mother’s house today I was thinking about how lucky I am to have siblings who have mobilized and are willing to help me with the caregiving responsibilities during my Mother’s illness.

My sister and her partner came up from Florida and are staying with my Mother.  They are helping with the day to day activities including cooking, laundry and ensuring my Mother is comfortable.

My brother who lives in the same town as my parents has made himself available to pick things up at the mini-mart in town, help my Father manage a property he owns and in general do anything I’ve asked him to do.  He was a big help in getting our Mother home from the hospital on her day of discharge and is checking in on her frequently.

My role is to manage the nursing care, pick up and prepare medications for administration, talk to the doctors and oversee Mom’s condition and medical needs.

I am very fortunate.  Many of my Clients cannot depend on their children to get along and work together to ensure the responsibilities of caregiving.  I spend a great deal of time mediating family issues and trying to encourage siblings to give up their old roles and to work together.

Below you will find a link that will bring you to an excellent article to help you if you are feeling overwhelmed with your caregiver role and are beginning to feel resentment toward your siblings.

There are many difficulties encountered when caring for an aging parent, but if you and your siblings can work together the experience can provide you with memories you can treasure forever.

http://www.agingcare.com/Featured-Stories/133240/Getting-Your-Siblings-to-Help-With-Caregiving.htm