The Professional Geriatric Care Manager’s Blog

It’s Time to Say Goodbye to Clutter

It’s a new year and many of us make New Year’s resolutions. For many of us, maybe our New Year’s resolution should be to “declutter.” Some of us have drawers and closets stuffed with items. Every nook and cranny of our living space may be piled high with newspapers, magazines, paperwork, canned goods or that one item we are afraid to be without.

Lots of people lead a messy lifestyle and hoard certain objects. These individuals may acquire things that they don’t need, but they are still able to continue to function. Hoarding becomes a problem when an individual may no longer be able to cook meals, live safely in their home or when their hoarding becomes a threat to others. Hoarding can put one’s health and others at risk. Individuals hoard for many reasons. They may hoard because of an intense emotional attachment they have developed to certain objects. Throwing these objects away results in a sense of loss. Others hoard because they feel the item may be useful to them or someone else in the future. We accumulate too much if we are afraid we won’t be able to get more of it when we need it, or that it may be discontinued.

Most people who hoard will not seek help on their own. It is usually a friend or family member who pressures the individual to control their hoarding. Solutions are usually not simple, quick or long-lasting. Extreme hoarders will require professional therapy.

For others dealing with clutter, here are some helpful tips.

• Take just one project at a time and stick with it until it is complete. Start with an easy project and gradually move onto more challenging ones.
• Schedule time for decluttering.
• Make three piles for items being decluttered. Keep, donate, discard. Do not make a fourth pile labeled undecided. Remove the discard and donate piles as soon as possible.
• Bring nothing new into your home unless you have a proper place for it.
• Sales and bargains may cause you to over buy. Remember that food, over the counter medications and beauty products all have expiration dates and buying too many could be wasteful.

Parting with the objects you have collected can trigger anxiety. If an individual becomes anxious during decluttering, having them sit down and do something fun or relaxing until the feeling passes may be helpful. Hoarders need to realize they may be causing others and their community harm and stress. The goal is to help an individual see their objects in a new light and to change their hoarding behaviors. Pairing a health professional with an organizer can be helpful. Together they can guide the individual toward understanding the benefits of changing their hoarding behavior and setting goals to clean up the mess!

Distinctive Care Geriatric Care Management serves Bergen, Passaic, Rockland and Orange County with nurses licensed in New Jersey and New York. We help families dealing with various issues related to their elderly loved ones and would be happy to discuss any concerns you may have related to long term care. Please contact us at 201-587-5283 to schedule a consultation in our Ramsey or Ridgewood offices.